Theft Incidents

This is my 1st article about socialogy. I've always find it interesting to study what the people around me are doing, yes, including my closest friends. And I've always wanted to write posts about social science or human nature, this is my 1st, good luck to me.
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What is Socialogy or Human Scince? Well, you should check on Wikipedia about this, but if you're lazy, I could briefly explain that it is a kind of study about why people do things and what does it have to do with their charcteristics and something like that.
I'm not a pro, but I like sharing my thoughts.

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*The events on my research are based on Malaysian people in the 21st century, in this article, it's upon secondary students.

Theft Incidents.
type: stuff stolen when you're away and the theif is already far away.



If it happened on you:
1.You should not let your anger rage out.
   Why? It'll spoil you image in public, if you're alone, just stay away from anything or don't do anything that will bring you harm

2.Even if you have to, keep on holding your temper back, there's no use loosing it in open spaces, including letting bad/ugly words come out of your mouth.
   Why? Same reason as above, you may say a little if you want to, but control your urge. Many people don't like to be near with those whom talks a lot of ****ing words and there will be rumours about your attitude. Don't try to destroy things in public so that you will get people's attention and that they will focus on your anger and problems, they won't, in fact they would think that you are crazy and that they should leave you alone for their own good, only your closest and true friends will stay by your side calming you down, by then you should listen to them.

3.Don't go running around the place just to search for that guy who stole your belongings.
   Why? The world you live in is not a small place, that guy may be anywhere right now, and he/she will be doing their best to stay away from the place where the theft has happened, or if they are clever enough, they will stay in the place, but in a disguise or change of appearance. Instead, report the theft immedietly to the authorities. Unless you're in a closed place or tight security area, your chances of finding that guy alone is very low.

4.Keep yourslef calm.
   Why? That's the only thing you could do at the moment, unless you want to launch a search party immedietly but not many (approximately) will be willing to volunteer unless that theft is occuring recently at that area. Calming yourslef will keep you looking forward to the rest of the day, instead of destroying it. Another thing you can do at the moment is to believe that the thief will be caught and that the area will be back in peace. Believing in things really has their miracles, give it a try.



If it happened on your friends:
1.Don't tell them that what they should do next time.
   Why? They've probably learned from the lesson and hope that you would not act like a recording device repeating what they had already just understood. If you want to give some advice, don't give too many, unless it is something out of the blue (ex: insted of saying "you should not put your belongings....", say "hey, I've seen a new object that may hide your valuables in disguise so that it may not be targeted by thieves easily"). You don't wanna make them even mad.

2.If they lost their temper, don't just stand there or stay away from them.
   Why? From what I understand, when people loose their temper or get mad about something, it'sbecause that they want others to see/hear/feel what they want to express, and by just watching or staying away thinking that it's best not to get involved, it might hurt them mentally even more. Instead,  as his/her friend, we should keep on staying by their side, calming them down or saying things that may lessen their anger and cheering them up, it'll do them some good.

3.If they cry, stay by their side, hear what they have to say and be there for him/her.
   Why? Easy, that's what friends are for, right? Although you might feel unwilling to spend your time listening to others when you can surf Facebook for the afternoon, but by being by your friend's side you may even find out that friendship isn't as simple as you think.



If it happened on someone you don't know (you are a passerby etc.) :
1.Leave it to the authorities, if you try to confront him/her, he/she might think of you as another guy who has got his/her screws loose (the first guy is the thief). Unless he/she intends on killing him/herself, you'd better stop it.

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Done, hope that it'll be a good guide in life for you and me. Comments are welcome, I want to improve myself, thanks. Have a nice day :)

Aqua Dreamer 2011